Focus On The People Who Need Your Creativity

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Focus On The People Who Need Your Creativity

Dear Creative,


There will always be haters. That’s part of the risk that comes with choosing to take your place in the world of creativity.
Not everyone will love your work.  There will be those who do.  There will be haters. There will be those who do not like your drawing, poem, photo, painting, essay or the filter you used just before you publish Instagram.

Let me tell you a story.

Last summer, I had the opportunity to share my work/my words as a poet with audiences in Mexico City.  I remember this young woman who came up to me after the reading in Coyoacan. She asked if she could speak to me privately. She spoke softly as I leaned in closer to hear what she had to say.

She told me about her best friend who died the week before. She told me about how she was not there to sit with her in the hospital bed. She wore a cloud of guilt on her face and sat there sobbing. She must have been 22 years old. Her friend was also very young. She thanked me for the poem I read. I shared my sadness about the ones I had loved and lost in my life.  I realized that she needed to hear that poem in the same way I needed her to tell me how it impacted her.

There were people who loved the poems, but there were also those who needed it. They came up to me and told me that poetry was the thing that was sustaining them right now. ⠀There are those who need your words like they need air and good. Focus on them.

Focus On The People Who Need Your Creativity

But if there is anything I have learned to help me be a more resilient creative it is this:  Are you listening? Write this down. Type it into your phone.

Use it as a screensaver. Say it to all of your fellow creative friends.  Put it on a t-shirt or get it made into stickers.

Ready for it?

There will be people who love your creative work and people who hate your work.  There will also be those people who need your work. Focus on the people who need your work. Let that sink in for a minute.  Are you breathing a bit easier? Is the tightness in your chest easing up?  Are you feeling a little bit more courageous when it comes to sharing your work out into the world?  I hope so.


Your true creative fans will become more important than the haters.

When you doubt yourself, feel the doubt but also remember the people who need your work. What would they say? Keep their voices in your head.⠀

We forget about the people who need our work. They are not always so obvious.  Sometimes they skip into our DMs with a note of thanks and a tale of the life they’ve lived and how our work has supported them. Sometimes they cry while reading something you wrote.  They need your work like we all need food and air and water, necessary things for physical survival.

They understand that there are also necessary things for emotional survival and necessary things for creative survival.
The people who need your work check your Instagram feed first thing in the morning, just upon waking. Sometimes they don’t leave the bed before scrolling through your feed.

They keep their phone there just for you. If they see you’ve tweeted or shared a story, they immediately scroll through to find you and your work.

Your work is a lifeline for them.


I recently wrote about the late poet Mary Oliver,  and all the people she touched.  We all so desperately needed her work.
Through meditating on language, nature, and belonging she taught us how to belong to ourselves by taking our place in the world and belonging to the universe in the process.

Thank them, create with them in mind. Put their picture up where you work.
Give them your energy.  They will give it back.

Guess what?  

If you focus on the people who need your creative work you will realize that you are one of those people.

We often try to solve our own problems, and then we realize this is how we can help others.  This is the beauty of this approach. The haters will be there.  The lovers will be there too.  But there’s also the needers.

Focus on them.

Keep going.  I want to see your brilliance.


Love,
Your Future Self

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Uchechi Kalu is a UX designer, tech entrepreneur, public speaker and published poet. She believes artistic creativity and business savvy helps entrepreneurs take their work to the next level. She writes about the challenges and triumphs of making your dreams happen.
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